PSA on Hating for 2009: Revisited

Originally posted in January 09 on Facebook, I've decided to revisit this post because it still needs to be shared.

Greetings all my internet friends and associates!

Notice how I said friends AND associates? Why?
Just because they are on your FRIENDS list doesn't mean they are your friend. Learn this and remember...For it will save your life, or even more, your dignity.


It seems once a song about any particular colloquialism that wasn't a big subject before,(but was used by everyone in the black community) hits the air waves, that is a signal that said colloquialisms life span is over. That or if MTV commercials or VH1 comedians on I Love The *insert year* make jokes about it.

Prime examples are "bling bling" and "bitchassness".

Today we are going to talk about a word that has been just outright abused in the last few years.

HATE/HATING/HATER

It seems that in todays society you are labeled a hater if you do not agree with something wrong that someone is doing, if you don't like something, or something someone has said. (THANKS Maino and JIll Scott, you fuckers... )Let’s get a few things straight:

~ Calling you out for doing questionable AND/OR plain dumb stuff is NOT hating! ~

~ Calling out whack niggas & broads is NOT hating! ~

When you as a DECENT person do NOT call out a mofo who you KNOW is whack for lying, and fronting, you are contributing to the problem. It's like watching a litterbug throw trash everywhere, and you don't stop him or report him and THEN have the nerve to complain about how much garbage is gathering around the park.

NIGGAS,
if you KNOW you lying and you are whack, it is NOT hating when someone calls you to the carpet.
If its a lie, then offer proof, and shut EVERYONE up. You will thus ensure that everyone who doubted you will now back you because you offered hard core proof…sorta.

NIGGAS,
if your BOY is a liar, and he gets with someone you KNOW is a good girl WARN HER. It is NOT hating! That’s like seeing someone about to get shot and pushing them out the way and the shooter saying
“Aw man you HATIN!”

uh, NO!

WOMEN,
If you got a man that even remotely can be garbage and three THOUSAND of your closest friends and associates tell you he is garbage, not the right one for you, or that you don't need to be in a relationship right now...it’s a STRONG possibility since it is coming from EVERYONE, THEY ARE NOT HATING. The entire city and internet cannot be haters at the same time. Its scientifically impossible.


Let’s look at a few examples...

ex1:

"QueeQuee, I don't think you should get with this guy right now, I mean your dog just died, and the economy is bad, you just broke up with Tyrone 3 minutes ago, as your friend, I am telling you -..."

"GURL YOU JUST HATIN ON ME cause YOU ain't got a man chasin’ after you!"


ex2:

"Man, I got all these hoes that give me shit at the drop of a dime. I RUN THIS YA HEARD ME?"

"Craig...don't you live with yo momma...and you sleep on an air mattress, in her basement?"

"You just HATIN' cause you ain’t got all these hoes like me chump!"


ex3:
"Keshalajah, We yo’ girls right? We gotta come to you because we love you. We noticed you be actin mad different when that nigga is around. You don't do shit with us no more, you don't return calls, you let this nigga drive yo car, spend your money, smoke weed with yo momma, and fuck your 20 yr old younger sister. He ain’t got no job, and last night we have camera phone pics of him with that dumb girl QueeQuee!"

"Yall bitches just be HATIN'! Yall bitches mad cause you ain't got a man like MINES. We are IN LOVE!"


ex4:
“Raylonjella, girl you KNOW you are too big for that outfit!”

“BITCH QUIT HATIN ON ALL THIS! You just mad cause all the niggas flock to me when we go out. Skinny bitches must DIE!”




I want EVERYONE, (ev-er-ry one?) Yes nigga, EV-ER-RY ONE to spread the new message of 2009.



Hating is only hating if you've got no legit beef with the hatee and no proof.

STOP SAYING YOU ARE HATED ON IF FOLKS ARE TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT YOU.

everyone say hi to craig!